Contact Us

To contact us, write to

A variety of people contact us, many of them not attracted to children. Just writing us does not tag you as a pedophile.

We encourage pedophiles who contact us not to give identifying information, for your own protection. Over 7,000 users have made accounts (as of January 2022).

If you are:

  • attracted to children (or confused on the issue)
  • are 18 or over

then you can ask to join. Tell us a little - it doesn't have to be much - about your situation and why you want to join. 

If you're under 18, although you can't join, we can send you links to some helpful resources.

Anyone who can express themself in English is welcome, regardless of gender, background or country. We just ask that you're committed to the idea of never hurting a child.

We advise against writing to us from your work or school address (because it could be read by someone else) or from your main email that is linked to your real identity.

You can normally expect a reply within 3 days.