Contact Us

To contact us, write to

A variety of people contact us, many of them not attracted to children. Just writing us does not tag you as a pedophile.

We encourage pedophiles who contact us not to give identifying information, for your own protection. Nearly 8,000 users have made accounts (as of August 2022).

To join you need to be attracted to children. You also need to be committed to never harming a child.

You must also be at least 18 years old. If you are, please say so when you write (or we will write back to clarify this). If you're under 18, although you can't join, we can send you links to some helpful resources.

Anyone who can express themself in English is welcome, regardless of gender, background or country.

We advise against writing to us from your work or school address (because it could be read by someone else) or from your main email that is linked to your real identity.

You can normally expect a reply within 3 days.