Forum Access for Friends and Family

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Our forum is a peer-support community. We help pedophiles anonymously and honestly discuss their experiences and feelings. We don’t allow image sharing, justification of adult-child sexual contact or encouragement of illegal behavior. Moderators enforce these rules. All posts are written in English.

We also have a section for family and friends, which offers both a dedicated discussion area which standard pedophile members cannot access and a “mixed conversations” area where friends, family and pedophiles can have dialogue.

It is a community where you can be listened to and offered the perspective of people who get what you’re going through and who aren’t trying to make themselves look good when they advise you. Unfortunately, our rules prohibit sharing details of any offenses not yet known to law enforcement.

To join as a friend or family member, you need to have been closely involved with someone who is attracted to children. You must also be at least 18 years old.

Please try and make all these things clear when writing your joining request to [email protected]

We strongly encourage those who join not to give identifying information, for your own protection and that of your friend or family member. If you are new to this, you may not be aware of the potential harm that can come of giving identifying information about a pedophile in a publicly-accessible forum.

Anyone who can express themself in English is welcome, regardless of gender, identity, background or country.

Avoid writing to us from your work or school address (others may be able to see these) or an email linked to your real identity.


VirPed is a forum to talk about pedophilia, share life experiences and socialise. It is not a space for sharing fantasy. Images cannot be posted.

Read all of the rules